co-opted by many protectors who claim to be shielding her
teller of tales
has creativity
co-opted by protector to build a world of safety by explaining all
middle child, teller of tales
has drive to explore, ability for friendship
needs mirroring and companionship
the most protected one
child of stillness
has ability to simply be
needs stillness, drifting, undefinedness
protectors
protector of isolation
protects the middle child
strategy = "don't try to connect with the people around me, connect with Bach and Issac Asimov"
protector of son-ambulance
protects the child of stillness
strategy = "when life is too overwhelming and the obsessive one will not let go, simply go to sleep"
strategy = "fuck you I won't do it"
when he steps down, I am able to judiciously take the stillness the child of stillness needs and the middle child is freed to tell amusing tales
protector of understanding - the obsessive one part 1
protects the middle child
strategy = "understand people around me, so I can hold back my love when I might not get the mirroring I need"
when he steps down, the middle child and the soul child are allowed to freely feel my love for the people around me
protector of pleasing others
protects the middle child
this is my dominant shadow personality
strategy = "perform flawlessly according to the standards of the people around me and I will get a substitute for the mirroring which the middle child needs"
